I learnt...

I learnt, from...

JW: Some guys like a lot of girls at the same time. Never bother taking their infatuation with u seriously. And their feelings won’t be all that injured (if at all) if u reject them.

A: Don’t get into a relationship just to save face for him (even if he’s ur best guy friend) and urself. He’ll get over his infatuation with u eventually.

C: Not all best guy friends who like u would turn out to be like A. Whether u get into a relationship or not, that thin line has already been crossed, and things have already changed.

K1: Don’t bother liking someone until u really know what he’s like. Ur infatuation with him will blind u to what he really is like. U only end up being infatuated with a figment of ur imagination.

JR: Don’t jump into a relationship without considering whether the situation is practical no matter how much u like each other.

NY: Sometimes, u don’t know if a guy friend who u always joke with is serious or not when he says he loves u, laughing everything away is a safe and good option. If he’s for real, he’ll persist till you finally believe. If he doesn’t, he doesn’t like u, or is not worth ur time cos he probably doesn’t like u all THAT much anyway.

Freaks: Don’t give them a reaction. They’ll soon get bored.

H: Don’t like a guy who’s not over someone else regardless what promises and sweet nothings he says to u.

K2: Some guys just get a mental problem causing them to THINK they like u. Though they’re REALLY honest bout it, u know u’re so obviously not their type so don’t let it get to ur head.

M: Girls can get mental problem too.

NT: It’s ok tell a guy who’s serious bout u, no. Adding in “maybe just not yet” and “I need to know u better first” helps too. Your friendship can go on as normal with no awkwardness or hard feelings.

*these are things i learnt. Do not assume what i went thru to learn these. U are most probably wrong.